Wednesday, December 18, 2019

To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest accomplishment.

-- Ralph Waldo Emerson

Monday, October 8, 2018


I wanted to just be like everyone else, now I don't 'cause that's boring.

-- Jorja Smith

Sunday, April 9, 2017

One of the things few people know is that shyness itself is not a disorder but it is rather an escape mechanism that people use to run from certain problems such as lack of self-esteem.

-- 2knowmyself

Excerpt from Farouk's email titled "This is why you lack self confidence".

Sunday, January 1, 2017

You acted on something stronger to you than sense, stronger than safety, stronger than judgment.

-- Caroline McHugh

This, according to Caroline, is what happens when you "happen on an Absolute."

She says that Absolutes are "what Martin Luther King Junior called the content of my character, and they govern every choice I make and everything I do."
What means as much to you as Love, Individuality, and Freedom to me?

-- Caroline McHugh
People need labels to judge you, and if you don't judge yourself by the labels, you disempower them.

-- Caroline McHugh
Knowing your absolutes not only helps you to express yourself, it gives you the criteria by which to judge yourself.

-- Caroline McHugh
Love, Individuality, and Freedom are what I call my Absolutes, what Martin Luther King Junior called the content of my character, and they govern every choice I make and everything I do. How I parent my children. How I run my business. Where I buy my shoes. How I get dressed in the morning. They choose the movies I love and the people I befriend.

-- Caroline McHugh
My commitment to myself and those around me is to live my deepest humanity, and to use that to be a contribution, so freedom doesn't just describe what I want for myself. It describes my world view and what I deem the most basic of human rights.

-- Caroline McHugh
Feeling guilty is contingent on the past and fear depends on the future. If you live in the moment, neither are possible.

-- Caroline McHugh
Individuality: the quality or character of a person or thing that distinguishes them from others of the same kind.

-- Caroline McHugh
More than I can remember, women in particular made comments about being brave, only because they couldn't imagine their heads without hair.

-- Caroline McHugh

Bravery = doing what you can't imagine doing or being what you can't imagine being

Doing what you can't imagine doing or being what you can't imagine being => goals that your subconscious mind cares about
Think of as many labels as you can. You might be faced with twenty or thirty yous. Consider how much you're defined by them. How much of your sense of who you are is vested in each one? In which of your roles do you feel the most you? Most fulfilled? Most alive? Which of them do you feel most passionately about? Which do you feel are most important? Not in terms of priority but in terms of identity ... being a stranger is more a part of me than being a godmother.

-- Caroline McHugh

Priority versus Identity. You can spend much of your time being a son, a brother or even an engineer. But that does not have to define you.

ART; A 60's Free Spirit Whose Main Subject Was Herself

http://www.nytimes.com/1998/07/05/arts/art-a-60-s-free-spirit-whose-main-subject-was-herself.html

-- New York Times

Discovered via a Google search with "yayoi kusama individualist"

Yayoi Kusama

https://www.collectorsagenda.com/en/reviews/yayoi-kusama

-- Collectors Agenda

Discovered via a Google search with "yayoi kusama individualist"