Being a big fan of movies, Desplat set his sights on becoming a film
composer from an early age and took actions to make this dream a reality
as soon as he started thinking of building a career. He worked on his first film Le souffleur in 1986.
When
recording the music for his first film, he met violinist Dominique
Lemonnier who became his favorite soloist, artistic director and wife.
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A
good example of what the Holstee manifesto says: If you're looking for
the love of your life, stop; she'll be waiting for you when you start
doing what you love.