Tuesday, March 29, 2016

I actually created my dream job. I do what I love. I’m happy every day.

-- Angèle

Monday, March 28, 2016

You are the person you chose to be.

-- Paul Arden

Wednesday, March 23, 2016

Listen to your drum and your drum only. It's the one that makes the sweetest sound.

-- Simon Sinek
Get your testosterone up. Get your cortisol down. Don't leave that situation feeling like, oh, I didn't show them who I am. Leave that situation feeling like, I really feel like I got to say who I am and show who I am.

-- Amy Cuddy
I realized that she had not just faked it till she made it, she had actually faked it till she became it. So she had changed. And so I want to say to you, don't fake it till you make it. Fake it till you become it. Do it enough until you actually become it and internalize.

-- Amy Cuddy
I was so afraid of being found out the next day that I called her and said, "I'm quitting." She was like, "You are not quitting, because I took a gamble on you, and you're staying. You're going to stay, and this is what you're going to do. You are going to fake it. You're going to do every talk that you ever get asked to do. You're just going to do it and do it and do it, even if you're terrified and just paralyzed and having an out-of-body experience, until you have this moment where you say, 'Oh my gosh, I'm doing it. Like, I have become this. I am actually doing this.'" So that's what I did. Five years in grad school, a few years, you know, I'm at Northwestern, I moved to Harvard, I'm at Harvard, I'm not really thinking about it anymore, but for a long time I had been thinking, "Not supposed to be here."

-- Amy Cuddy

Monday, March 21, 2016

Match-to-match, the question that materializes time and again out of that fog of unforced errors and poor footwork is: "Will Serena come out of it, find her game, win again?"

It often appears that she's running on fumes, and perhaps in some ways that's true. But she is a woman of remarkable physical and emotional strength and will, and if that isn't enough, there's always that ability to exercise the equivalent of the nuclear option: that magnificent serve.

-- ESPN

This quote brings to mind what the Flow book says about emotions and will (... At least as much as intelligence, it [control over consciousness] requires the commitment of emotions and will ...)

Tuesday, March 15, 2016

If you are interested in something, you will focus on it, and if you focus attention on anything, it is likely that you'll become interested in it. Many of the things we find interesting are not so by nature, but because we took the trouble of paying attention to them.

-- Mihaly Czikszentmilhalyi
I was so terrified that I could barely open my eyes on stage and I was grabbing onto the mic stand for dear life as the one thing between me and the audience. If you are a guitar player you have this thing in front of you it sort of feels like a security blanket. But if you are a singer, you don't have that. So it was hard, and it was very stressful, but again there was something about it that just felt like I was releasing a part of myself that was not able to be expressed in any other place.

-- Joan Osborne

An excerpt from an interview with Billboard's Soul Sisters Podcast
When you are a musician, when you are a singer, or whatever, you start out imitating the people that you love. And through that process, you find your own thing to do. So I definitely borrowed a lot from the people that I admired, Etta James, and Al Green, and all those people, but then you also bring something of your own to it.

-- Joan Osborne

An excerpt from an interview with Billboard's Soul Sisters Podcast
Just to have that kind of confidence and that kind of swagger, I wanted to be that and I wasn't that. But I was very attracted to it and if I could sort of fake my way into that as I was performing a blues song on stage, then I could kind of pretend to be that. And it was exciting to me ... I think after a while I was able to kind of own that a little bit more.

-- Joan Osborne

An excerpt from an interview with Billboard's Soul Sisters Podcast
You are drawn to the people who are doing the thing you want to do yourself.

-- Joan Osborne

An excerpt from an interview with Billboard's Soul Sisters Podcast

Sunday, March 13, 2016

Le plus grand ennemi de l'homme, c'est la peur - qui apparaît sous des formes aussi diverses que la honte, la jalousie, la colère, l'insolence, l'arrogance... Quelle est la cause de la peur ? Le manque de confiance en soi.

-- Swâmi Prajnânpad
Find out what you like and what you hate about life. Start doing more of what you love, less of what you hate.

-- Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi
Pain and pleasure occur in consciousness and exist only there.

-- Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi
"If there is no enemy within, the enemy outside can do you no harm."~African Proverb‌

-- Les Brown
Empowering individuals to tap into their greatness.

-- Les Brown

This could be a good example of a WHY.

Friday, March 4, 2016

Si le tennis c'est de la balle, les matchs truqués, c'est du racket

-- Pierre Deruelle
Que diriez-vous à la petite fille que vous étiez si vous la croisiez dans la rue ?

Probablement, c'est facile à dire maintenant, mais : "Reste authentique, surtout avec toi-même. Ne gâche pas une partie de ta vie à cacher qui tu es".

-- Ellen Page

Excerpt from a "A Nous Paris" interview.
Anticonformiste, SIA ne fait jamais dans la demi-mesure, séduisant son public grâce à un univers artistique atypique.

-- Direct Matin